I am single women and I use a dating site - I am stunned at the amount of married men on line, who are looking for another woman to spend time with!
I believe they either have something missing at home, or have got it all and want more!
What do you think?
They are the married bachelors! lol!
Its fundamentally selfish, and any woman who knowingly sleeps with a married man deserves death.
Some men are just pigs who don't respect their marital vows. Putting blame on their wives' bedroom skills is ridiculous. If their marriage was that horrible they would just get a divorce instead of sneaking around.
they are jerks
Probably just staying w/ their wives for the kids, or monetary reasons & are looking for something they don't get at home.
I think you should steer clear of them...good luck
probably a little bit of both. Men are greedy when it comes to sex. They want their cake and to eat it too.
I hope you are not dating any of these married guys.
I use a dating site and if i am lucky enough to find a girl to marry i will spend all my time devoted to her and make the most of it and not go around cheating on them. Its disgusting how people can treat each other sometimes.
They just can't be bothered to put the effort into their own life and make the most of it.
It is the result of unfulfilled desires & non sincerity to their spouse. This is nothing but western culture.
Any long term relationship is hard work, and sex/affection is one of the first things to suffer when things get hard.
I believe there would be a great deal more divorces and break ups if people didn't look elsewhere occasionally.
I don't think its all just about physically gratification, sometimes someone just wants to be close to someone.
The sad thing is, that if they put the same effort in to their failing relationship as they do into finding another women, they'd reap much greater benefits.
I'm married and do NOT use these sites or any site but I can maybe shed some light on why. Shortly after marriage MOST women cut there sex output to about 10% of what it was, especially after children. Men have a hard time dealing with it. So they justify lack of sex for there actions looking elsewhere for it,
I think it's both. It depends on their situation, though. It's been my experience that men sometimes get bored, though not a good enough excuse to cheat, reality is somewhat worse than expectation. Or perhaps they are in an open relationship. Who knows. The real question is, do you feel comfortable dating a married man?
Men that go on line and look for love are idiots. Those are the same men that you see in public and act like they are afraid to even get caught looking at other women. They have no social skills, no charisma, and in general they do not know how to talk to women face to face.
That's why they marriages are in trouble. If they can't relate to women in general, they surely can't seduce their wife. There are a lot of wives that simply need to be seduced by tmarried women infidelityheir husband, but their husbands have no seduction skills.
Sometimes the situation in the marital home is NOT what it should be and PEOPLE, not just men, look for council else where. Call it cheating, adultery, call it what you will. But sometimes there is too much hate for the ones we love and we have to seek comfort elsewhere.
Our bodies sometimes cry out to us and we need to answer it, it's instinct I suppose. As for morals, I am with Voltaire on this one.
Voltaire once said "I have no morals, yet I am a very moral person".
we all know men are men, but i think that as women we should respect one another.
If a women knowingly dates a married man she should consider what pain & emotional stress it causes to the wife & inturn the children, a wife can not be the mother she wants to be, ie happy & fun with her children if there is marital problems going on, especially a husband being unfaithfull, i know it takes 2 to tango but if the women didn't encourage the men then they might try a little harder within the marriage instead of running to the 1st easy lay they come across (i donn't mean litaraly !!!!!!)
There is no excuse for these men cheating on their wives but blame also lays at the door of these women who still go with these men and who know that these men are in a marriage.
The men who are on those sites are bastards! They are probably getting more than enough love and affection at home, they are "black holes of need".
A lot ofd those guys would probably do nothing about it. Most are just fishing around to find out if they still have it.
Lots of women fall victim to inattention but the big secret is that men do to.
Now I have read all the comments to this question and I have this to say:
Generalizing is not a nice thing to do... not only men cheat you know. Actually, alot more women cheat, its just not that widely discussed as male cheats. And yea, like someone else said - you can call it cheat, adultery etc.... But sometimes its not because there is a problem in their marriages or homes... alot of times couples do these things together in order to spice up their marital sex lifes. Alot of couples engage a girl or guy on internet only and get some ideas that way, and others actually allow one of the two partners to (or both) to wander around with each other's consent. Strange I know, but who are we to judge other people? As long as you do what you believe in and what your own morals allow.
I say that it's not just men that cheat. I tried a dating site once and found that there were many married women on there also; the bored house wife thing. It's a sad state of affairs these days.
My ex wife cheated on me, it really hurt me. I would not do that to anyone, the pain that I went through was horrid.
You are wrong about the reasons men cheat. It has nothing to do with their wives. They do it because they are insecure and egotistical, and feel a need to prove something to themselves, for whatever sad reason.
a lot of men jumarried women infidelityst want to have the best of both worlds
I would imagine those men are not serious about dating, they probably are after an ego boost to be contacted by women and have some attention which is probably missing after so many years of marriage. I would think that very fewof those men on dating sites would go through with anything with anyone they met online.
I think they probably are missing something at home, they want that initial excitment again.
Stay away from them!! x
Human mind is like a wave of ocean. You can not control. Love is something that can come any time to anybody. No mater married or unmarried......old or young. So I can not say it is wrong.
I used to run a rugby club.And my whole attitude to men has completely changed....for the worse!I watched while the wives left the building to let the men 'get on with it'.These guys who i thought were happily married are a nightmare when no-one is looking!If they think they can get away with it,then they will do it.
I've been lucky - I've been on a few dates from these sites, but they've never had baggage - we just didn't click. Those that do are trying their luck. I imagine some will chicken out when it comes to the 'dirty deed' but others will blatently cheat on their partners/wives.
Unfortunately - without a private investigator it would be hard to weed out the good ones - so my advice is to practice safe sex...
i think thier low down cheating animals
They are all arseholes! no women should cheat or be cheated on. Any women who sleeps with another women's man is a disgrace to the female population.
i use to use a dating site. i too was surprised (even disgusted) at the amount of married men on site. however i did find the man for me, yes he was/is married but he lives with me now his wife lives with her girl friend and spent most of her time with her even when he was living with her. i use to dam married men on dating sites but not so any more, after all there must be something wrong for them to be looking in the first place. also we don't know how many married women are on these sites do we.
It seems to me that a number of men/women will use a lot of time energy and indeed money, because they feel the grass is greener on the other side.
What i say to them is ... use all those resources to put the sparkle and romance back into your marriage and you may find that the grass was the greenest where you were.
It's all greed and having and inch and wanting a metre..
If i could let all there wifes know i would.. it hurts when someone plays away and i wouldn't entertain them with a 10 foot barge pole..
Whne you marry you make a commitment to the other person.. you shoulc stick to it.. and lets face it if we as women were doing it to them they would drag you through the courts..
They shoudl be ashamed..
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